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*Know the Genuine

*Spot the Counterfeit

*Attract your kind

*Live happily ever after

While others are preparing for their wedding, you are preparing for your marriage.
This is the best investment you will ever make in your marriage
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Watch the Free Workshop Here

Planning to get married?

Do you know how to do marriage?

50% of all marriages end in divorce. Understand why.

The Ultimate Marriage Preparation Program 

All you need to know before you say "I DO"

Join today $37/ month

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Discover the secret to choosing a life partner with confidence

Planning to get married soon?

Are you a mature youth, and want to prepare for the prospect of getting married someday?

Already married but did not receive proper premarital preparation?

Are you a parent, relative or friend of someone planning to get married?

Divorced, but you want to sharpen you relationship skills for the next time around?

This FREE marriage preparation workshop teaches all you'll ever need to have a stunningly successful marriage.

In the program we'll cover:

How to choose a life partner with confidence
Are you sure you are ready to get married?
Are you sure you are getting married to the right person?


Did you know that 20 percent of the couples that do premarital coaching/counseling do not marry the same person?

How to identify the 4 major predictors of divorce

Are you sure your lover does not exhibit signs of one of these?

Will you wait until after marriage to learn about your partner's deep expectations, and perspectives regarding marriage? 

How to address the tough questions of marriage, example:

Will you work outside the home?
Who will manage the finances? 
What kind of parent will you be, passive/ active, etc? 
Will you help with the chores? 
Will you have greater regard me than your relatives/ In-laws?


How to communicate effectively with your spouseHow do you communicate when annoyed? 
Do you raise you voice or become verbally abusive?
Is he/she a narcissist? Do you know the signs?


The 9 fundamental components of a successful marriage
Enter marriage without a knowledge of these and you will be condemned to learn them through fighting during marriage


Will you get on the road and start driving before taking your driving lessons? 
If so, expect to become another fatality on the marriage highway.

The more you know before you tie the knot, the better.
Nobody I know wants to be known as a divorcee
Make the right choice.


Will you wait until after marriage to learn about your partner's deep expectations, and perspectives regarding marriage? 


You can build a rock-solid & triumphant marriage. This privilege is reserved only for those equipped with knowledge. Start laying the foundation to becoming a relationship expert by investing in yourself.
Order the Premarital Preparation Program  and get started today





You thought knowledge was expensive? Check ignorance

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There are two kinds of people in a relationship. There are the Disasters and the Masters of relationship. The MASTER OF RELATIONSHIP is always seeking for an opportunity to repair, heal and strengthen the relationship.
In my Master of Relationship program I teach the following:
1. One of the major causes of divorce is a lack of understanding of your partners needs. I teach you the basic differences between the genders. His needs and Her needs, as men and women are uniquely different. You will learn how to meet your partner's needs, not based on what you think, but based on what he/ she wants
2.  What sex got to do with it? Many people have a difficulty having open and candid conversation regarding sex. But how can you talk about a subject when you don't know what to talk about. How can you make decisions when you don't know the options? We teach you what you need to know about sex. We also answer your questions.
3. You will be alerted to the grievous wrongs which so often embitter married life and how to safeguard yourself against them. 
4. You will be taught the scientific reasons why many young persons make decisions with the emotion (The Amygdala) rather than with the intellect (The Neo-cortex)
5. We'll discuss Finances. How much should you spend without your spouse's permission?
A wrong management of finance is a major cause of breakup in relationships
6. How to spot an abuser on your first date? A discussion of this subject is extremely important. You may be dating an abuser and don't know it. Get the facts.
7. How to curb the urge. The lie of casual sex. Finding healing after sexual promiscuity, rape and molestation.
9. How to deal with difficult in-laws.
10. Do the litmus test. Are you unequally yoked? 
This program is a MUST for all singles, youth, parents, teachers and coaches. 
If you intend to eventually marry, you need knowledge, as ignorance is too costly
When you enroll in the program I'll be your coach for life

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Lloyd Allen

Author, Speaker and Family Advocate.

A trained Family Therapist and Clinical Mental Health Counselor.

MS - Marriage, Family & Couples Therapy. Barry University (Honors)

MS - Clinical Mental Health Counselor. Barry University (Honors)

BA- Theology- Northern Caribbean University

       & University of Costa Rica (UNADECA)



Minister of Religion and Conference Lay Evangelism Regional Director (USA)


Lloyd has traveled extensively in and out of the USA speaking, counseling and conducting family seminars and evangelistic series


Author of a book on relationships: "A Close look at Love, Sex and Relationships"

Lloyd is happily married and has two sons.

After several years of marriage, my husband and I realized that our marriage was in trouble, so we asked God to provide a Godly councilor for us, and that he did. He provided Pr. Lloyd Allen, a man of wisdom and integrity. He gave us sound and biblical council. We can't express how happy and blessed we are.  Pr. Allen, thank your for restoring our marriage! "CAFG"

Hi Pastor, thank you sooo much for taking the time to counsel B & myself.. I have always admired the way you treasure Sis Allen. with so much love & respect..God has truly blessed you 
with a wonderful family. You are my role model & I thank God for you. 
We appreciate & love you guys so much and always will.  Have a 
Blessed day 


Things are going good!  Your counseling & prayers have brought us even
closer! We no longer " by the Grace of God' utter any negative words to each other 
Thank you 


Pastor Allen, Pastor Allen, Pastor Allen, Thanks sooo much for the book. I decided at midday today to begin reading it and was so riveted to the inspiration and wisdom that I couldn't stop until I had read all pages. Your mastery in relating scenarios made the book so very relevant, and I'm certain that it will be a blessing and a success. I plan to gift some copies for the holidays and I must get one for myself because I like to read and underline. I made two pages of notes and anecdotes in my notebook today to ensure that the atrophied brain cells absorb the nutrition and start to work again!

Thanks again and I pray for continued abundance of blessings on you and family🏾

"Elder B."

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