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Start The Process Of Fixing Your Relationship By Understanding Their Mindset


       Your Weekly Family Workshop (Free) - Q & A w/ Lloyd Allen

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Lloyd Allen,
Author, Speaker, & Marriage Coach
  •  Founder & CEO of Fixing Marriages

  • Trained Marriage & Family Therapist

  • Trained Clinical Mental Health Counselor

  • 24 years counseling couples and families in and out of the USA

  • Author of a book on Love, Sex and Relationships

  • & E-book: Finding Love & Keeping it- Over 200 tips to ignite and maintain the flame of love in your relationship

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Do you need help in dealing with an issue in your marriage?


Tel. 631 644 3222

Get the free report that reveals the 25 questions to discuss with your partner to understand their mindset 


The questions are so formulated to help you
discover Their deep thoughts regarding:
100% FREE. Click the button below and you'll learn:

Money Are they comfortable sharing one account? What are their views regarding being debt-free?


Parenting The kind of parents they will become. Passive, Active Supportive? How many kids do they want?


Role expectation  Is a great career more important than marriage and family. Who will work? Do they believe in helping with the house chores?


Upbringing How will habits learned from their family of origin impact their communication patterns and conflict resolution skills


Commitment What are their views regarding infidelity.

*How committed are they to the relationship. * What spiritual values do they embrace and how important are they? * If you were to revamp your spiritual views later, how would they react?


Conflict resolution How will lessons learned from their friends, the media family and family of origin impact their conflict-resolution patterns. How do they "fight?"


Sex: Understand their views regarding expressing affection. How do they want to receive and give affection?




Create a first-class relationship


One where you feel listened to, understood and respected.

Learn how to…

  • Repair what’s wrong in your relationship

  • Reconnect with each other

  • Communicate effectively

  • Resolve conflicts

  • Reduce anger, arguments, withdrawal and mean-spirited comments

  • Begin to heal trust

  • Put romance and passion back in the relationship

  • Reduce tensions between the two of you

It’s never too late to fall back in love.

It’s never too late to repair what’s wrong and create the close, connected relationship you want.

Call me today at (631)644-3222 for a complimentary phone consultation.

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Whatever it is....


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Hi Pastor, thank you sooo much for taking the time to counsel B & myself.. I have always admired the way you treasure Sis Allen. with so much love & respect..God has truly blessed you 
with a wonderful family. You are my role model & I thank God for you. 
We appreciate & love you guys so much and always will.  Have a 
Blessed day 

{Weeks after}

Things are going good!  Your counseling & prayers have brought us even
closer! We no longer " by the Grace of God' utter any negative words to each other 
Thank you 



Pastor Allen, Pastor Allen, Pastor Allen, Thanks sooo much for the book. I decided at midday today to begin reading it and was so riveted to the inspiration and wisdom that I couldn't stop until I had read all pages. Your mastery in relating scenarios made the book so very relevant, and I'm certain that it will be a blessing and a success. I plan to gift some copies for the holidays and I must get one for myself because I like to read and underline. I made two pages of notes and anecdotes in my notebook today to ensure that the atrophied brain cells absorb the nutrition and start to work again!

Thanks again and I pray for continued abundance of blessings on you and family🏾

"Elder B."

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Did you know that's exactly what we do when we marry without proper premarital preparation?


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