When you use words the right way, you cause the hormone dopamine to be released into their brain, and that makes them feel good. Hence you become the attractive spouse, yea, the magnetic spouse.
Your words are seeds that eventually bear fruits
The heart of your spouse is the soil in which those seeds are planted.
You reap what you sow.
You can reap misery and heartache, Or you reap peace and joy. You make the choice.
You want to learn the secret to joy in your marriage? Sow the seeds of affirmation: Words of encouragement and praise. Words that communicate emotional support.
Focus on their Good qualities Not on their irritating traits
Identify the good they do And voice it to them.
Scan the atmosphere to find them doing good. Then celebrate them for the good they do.
Create a culture of appreciation in your home. Yea, a circus of celebration.
You awake in the morning, the first thing you say to your spouse is a word or expression that buoys their spirit up, that elevates them; Words that make them feel like a superstar
“You are the best thing that ever happen to me
I thank God for you. You make me a better husband
You decorate my life
You make our home a little heaven on earth.
I love you with my heart, soul and kidney (Not sure what to say? Speak sweet nonsense)
If life were a cabbage, the leaves would I give to others and the heart to you
You must be tired. Why do you say that? Cause you kept running in my mind all day”.
Whatever you say, bring sunshine in the home and beauty in their heart.
The prudent husband of Proverbs 31 praises her, and the wise woman of Ephesians 5:33 respects him.
Do these things and you will be reckoned a biblical spouse.
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