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A Framework for Biblical Marriage Dynamics
1. The Two Become One Flesh - Intimacy / Love as Christ Loves the Church - A Biblical Perspective Genesis 2:24 - "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." Ephesians 5:25 - "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her." Also: Matthew 19:5-6 , Mark 10:7-8 2. Respect Him, Love Her Ephesians 5:33 - "However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the

Lloyd Allen
Jan 12


10 Things you should teach your daughter about marriage and relationships
1. Teach her that love without respect isn't love—it's a trap. A man who mocks your dreams, dismisses your pain, or makes you feel small is not your partner. He's your obstacle. Real love lifts. It never crushes. 2. Before she marries, make sure she can stand alone. A career. A savings account. A skill that pays. Not because she won't need anyone—but because she should never have to stay with someone who destroys her peace. 3. "But I love him" is not a reason to tolerate

Lloyd Allen
Dec 7, 2025
SHOULD CHRISTIANS HAVE A PRENUP?
How Prenuptial Agreements Benefit Christian Marriages Wise Stewardship, Not Weak Faith A prenup demonstrates biblical stewardship —responsibly managing what God has entrusted to you. Jesus praised the servants who wisely protected their master's resources (Matthew 25:14-30). Planning prudently isn't doubting God; it's honoring Him with wisdom. Five Key Benefits for Christians 1. Protects Kingdom Commitments Preserves resources designated for ministry or charitable work Ensure

Lloyd Allen
Nov 29, 2025


The Psychology Behind Why Assumptions Destroy Relationships
Every person enters relationships with unconscious "mental models" - internal blueprints about how love should look, feel, and function.
These models are built from childhood observations, past relationships, media influences, and cultural messaging. The destructive power lies not in having these models, but in assuming your partner shares identical ones.

Lloyd Allen
Sep 13, 2025
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