Ladies. Your femininity is your super power.
"The unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to adorn themselves"
(1 Peter 3:4, 5 NIV).
1. A masculine man desires a feminine woman.
Possessing this kind of woman makes a man feels respected and validated.
He feels he can assert his manly role to serve and cherish the woman of his dream.
2. Allow him to lead.
"I don't need a man. I can do it myself!" This is a sure way to prevent a man from serving and connecting with you.
3. Be nurturing and caring.
What about a man's mother that makes her so endearing to him?
Her nurturing and caring spirit.
The wise woman would do well to adapt this feminine trait.
4. Self-care.
Care for yourself physically, intellectually, emotionally and spiritually.
5. Don't dictate. Persuade
"It is my way or the highway!". This attitude repels a man
6. A good listener.
Listen, not to reply or judge him, but to understand his perspective.
7. A gentle spirit, as opposed to being coarse and boisterous.
8. Positivity. You don't strangle his progress or retard his growth with negative words. Instead you see possibility amid hopelessness. You believe in him even when he does not believe in himself. You speak to the king in your man. (See Proverbs 16:24)